Companionship or True Love

When you hit a certain age are you going to look for someone for true love or companionship? Let just say for the sake of conversation, that you are 40 years old and never been married no kids, and you are still out in the dating scene. What would you look for in a guy? Would you be interested to know that he wants to be a father or a playboy or just to get married and have no kids. What kind of elements/qualities would you have on your priority list for your ideal mate?

It seems to me that now a days people don't get married or if they do they get divorce and jump from one marriage into another. What is affecting us to do it this way? Why do we make these bad decisions? Is finding that one perfect guy so hard to do? I would say yes, there is no one on earth that is perfect so no luck in doing so. But I don't see how hard it is to find a good friend or someone to talk to that might lead to something else. When that happens don't jump into marriage if that is not what you want. But if it is go for it. I see a lot of people who are single or in the middle if you know what I mean.

To find someone to be your true love is very hard. To find a companion is very easy. To find a good companion to develop into a true love is do-able. Why not do that? I know people who have their list so high or so low that their relationships usually end up in the toilet. Why torture ourselves? Why not make good decisions for our future. Why put our heart and soul on the butcher table? These are just random questions I want some answer to that's all.

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